Monday, July 11, 2011

My friend is turning into a slut?

I'm not sure all the details of your friends life and background on how she was brought up? Are her parents involved in a big part of her life or do they just let her do what she wants? Are they together or divorced? Is her father in the picture? I think there is a reason that everyone is the way they are & a reason for the things they do. A lot of girls go through that stage in their life. I was one of them. I did not have the closest relationship to my mother growing up & my father was not around a whole lot.I think a lot of why I did the things I did is because I was insecure & had low self esteem & I craved attention from the opposite sex & friends. I didn't have a lot of friends & I always wanted to be popular. I hated being alone & I felt like an outsider. I did a lot of the things I did to please others...not to please myself. I do not know if this would apply to her, but this may be some of what she is feeling & why she does the things she does! If you are truly her friend don't judge her! Try to sit her down & tell her that you care about her & it bothers you to see her do the things she has been doing. Tell her that you'd like for the two of you to hang out more often like you used to, but you'd prefer not to hear about the things she's been doing. Tell her you wish she'd stop, because you know she deserves so much more than what she is giving herself credit for. I hope this is helpful!

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